An ugly term inhabits a world view:
'Suurstofdiefie' (oxygen-thief, is the Afrikaans idiom.) Other expressions charge
our sensibilities: Fool; idiot; fatso; wastrel. We deliver one-up-manships
rather easily. After all, degrees of intelligence, of talent, of beauty, of
ability are evident to us all. We live with differentiation. Still, despite
conscious efforts at compassion, an unwitting sense of suffocation can arise.
It gathers around the self in one's company, one's job, one's town or city or
province, state, and country. Yet we each breathe hardly beyond the immediacy
of need for our own oxygen. An aircraft fuselage is like that; a cigar box of
recycled air. Air shared by all. Guests come, and go.
Apportionment is at issue. Schools are like
that; constricting rules, or you're out! Associations are like that; a
governance by forces. The Fukushima Power Plant eruptions; the South African
farmers' genocide; these appear as isolated events beyond our apprehension. Yet
they each affect the rest of us. We hardly can be isolationist. And in our
collaborations, we conspire. We become invigorated, or dulled. Degrees of thinking can become
impeded, or elevated, by communion with others, yes? Twit!
Quality is at issue. Yet there is much that
would deny degrees of 'more-better' by comparisons, especially to others.
Habits of speech, of thinking, of topics to discuss, of interests, drive deep
into the status quo, such that to be an outlier, to be a dissident, to be ahead
of one's time (or even too far behind,) is not to be de rigour at all.
We rise or fall by meeting expectations. And we must perforce pretend to be on
board, to be abreast, or to concur with the basic percepts at hand. To speak
out of turn, above one's station, as an instinct at being precocious, or even
as a matter of wanting to address a grievance can seems so snobbish, so up-start-ish,
so misplaced as to bring upon oneself too severe an ire. No wonder we have kith
and clan and nationhood and school districts and accents and neighbourhoods
defined by the bell-curve. It is the anomaly that disquiets: "Just who do
you think you are?" Even the most gentle of intentions, the softest tones,
the most caring of dispositions may not be sufficient to dispel the raised
hackles of the ones in distrust. We share space. We share ideas. We share
expectations. We share air!
The big deal is that a huge disparity lies in
the sharing of our oxygen, our water, our intelligence quotient. After all, if
the sum of all energy indeed remains a constant, then might it not be true that
we vie for bits of energy ourselves? (as though your using up energy is an
appropriation of mine)! Oxygen thief! Well, when it comes to resources that is
exactly what we do contend! We absolutely assume that we have rights to energy
that others are evidently too lazy, incapable, impoverished, or recalcitrant to
appropriate unto themselves. And as such, we each live with our own apportionment of resources, if not enclaves of such. Our country is richer,
yours is poorer; we work harder, invest more, and thereby deserve more. So too
for our quality of life. So too for our right to an education system, (if not
heaven itself.) Is that not why there are various religions? (Matthew 17). Is
that not why there are various nations, various neighbourhoods? An eagle, or a
fish? My parents were not rich enough to outrank yours. I did not have the
privileges. Snob!
Unfairness is a way of life. We see beautiful or
handsome as an inherent trait, (especially in those not old enough to wear
makeup). We are very conscious of weight, height, and even hair colour. "She
is the one with buck teeth! He has jug-ears!" And we can be decided enough
purposefully to maim our children, mar or dock pets, or scar even ourselves
in the name of perceived beauty. (Psychological impacting can sometimes be so
subtle.) Yes, we are indeed judgmental of material wealth, of talent wealth, of
mental wealth. After all, "He cannot carry a tune. She cannot carry a
ball." But she is, "first in class". And we easily name another
a fool, an idiot! But openly to declare that another is stifling one's own
development, is holding one back, is preventing potential, well now, that is
another matter altogether. Elitism can be horridly arrogant. Idiot! Suurstofdiefie!
Still, we do share space and time, and thereby needs share our air, indeed.
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